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Full-Length Audio-Essays on Family Estrangement
Listen now | I’d like to share the full-length audio versions of both essays I’ve published in 2026 on family estrangement.
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Why I Estranged From My Parents, Even Though I Still Love & Appreciate Them.
A couple of weeks ago, I published an essay about the stigma attached to adults who estrange from their families, and the judgments we often receive…
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Being Mansplained to About Why I'm Being Sexually Harassed and How To Handle It.
My Response & What I'm Doing Instead.
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Family Estrangement is Not an "Epidemic," Child Abuse Is.
How the Cultural Messaging Around "No Contact" Empowers Abusers
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I Am The Biggest Karen When It Comes to My Safety.
This essay is a vulnerable account of the near-daily sexual harassment I have been dealing with for the past 6 months from a particular man in my…
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I've Returned to Big Daddy Algorithm.
Rebuilding on Instagram After Being Deplatformed
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I Approach Dating Like Cooking a Gourmet Meal.
Someone recently asked me what it’s like for me to date within the lesbian community while holding my views on gender identity.
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Learning What I Need in a Friendship The Hard Way.
Is Anything Sacred Once Gender Ideology Rears its Ugly Head?
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Not Me Wanting a Thick Booty Femme...
Musings on Casual Sex and Stoking Female Desire
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On ( Not ) Feeling Desirable in Lesbian Spaces.
Navigating Lesbian Relationships & Healing From Abuse
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Let Me Rest, N!gga!
Men Who Try to Wear Me Down Into Their Clutches
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Writers Have Feelings Too.
Wherever I go, I bring my whole self with me.
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