Real & Vulnerable

I've Returned to Big Daddy Algorithm.

Rebuilding on Instagram After Being Deplatformed

Oct 23 • N3VLYNNN

I Approach Dating Like Cooking a Gourmet Meal.

Someone recently asked me what it’s like for me to date within the lesbian community while holding my views on gender identity.

Oct 20 • N3VLYNNN

Learning What I Need in a Friendship The Hard Way.

Is Anything Sacred Once Gender Ideology Rears its Ugly Head?

Oct 9 • N3VLYNNN

Not Me Wanting a Thick Booty Femme...

Musings on Casual Sex and Stoking Female Desire

Sep 8 • N3VLYNNN

On ( Not ) Feeling Desirable in Lesbian Spaces.

Navigating Lesbian Relationships & Healing From Abuse

Aug 26 • N3VLYNNN

Let Me Rest, N!gga!

Men Who Try to Wear Me Down Into Their Clutches

Aug 19 • N3VLYNNN

Writers Have Feelings Too.

Wherever I go, I bring my whole self with me.

Aug 13 • N3VLYNNN

I've Hit a Glass Ceiling on Substack, and I Am Discouraged.

The Math Ain't Mathin'

Aug 4 • N3VLYNNN

How I Socialize As An Openly Gender-Critical Woman

A Potent Mix of Discernment and Boldness Makes It Fun

Aug 1 • N3VLYNNN

Men Who Get Angry With Me For Smiling At Them in Public

This week, I’ve had two random men get angry with me for smiling at them when they speak to me.

Jul 18 • N3VLYNNN

I Am Tired of Advocating For Myself.

I finally worked up the courage to tell my upstairs neighbor that she had been waking me up with the furniture she drags across the floor in the middle…

Jul 7 • N3VLYNNN

Embracing my Mixed Heritage as a Daughter of the Diaspora

Connecting Ethnic Origin with Colonial Legacies through Genealogy

Jul 3 • N3VLYNNN

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