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Queer Theory Carries a Low Vibrational Energy
Why I Can't Hang with Colonizer Apologists
Mar 27
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I'd Like To Think I Did My Mother A Favor By Walking Away.
This weekend, I opened my inbox and saw an email that bedazzled me:
Mar 23
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Apparently, Anyone Can Be a Butch Lesbian These Days
How Queer Culture Has Watered Down the Masculine Lesbian Identity
Mar 18
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On Being Pathologized for Speaking Up About Sexual Harassment
Yesterday, a reader of mine recently expressed “concern for my mental health” under a note where I shared my experience and assessment of sexual…
Mar 11
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How I Am Coping As Exhaustion Finishes Me.
Hi Everyone,
Mar 6
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Exploring The Intersections of Black Lesbian History and Transgenderism in the U.S.
A Collection of My Best Essays
Mar 1
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February 2026
The Hardest Part About Winter
Infusing Light, Warmth, and Connection Where There Is None
Feb 23
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Stop Comparing Trans “Womanface” To BlackFace.
It’s Not The Same Thing.
Feb 10
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Full-Length Audio-Essays on Family Estrangement
Listen now | I’d like to share the full-length audio versions of both essays I’ve published in 2026 on family estrangement.
Feb 4
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January 2026
Why I Estranged From My Parents, Even Though I Still Love & Appreciate Them.
A couple of weeks ago, I published an essay about the stigma attached to adults who estrange from their families, and the judgments we often receive…
Jan 28
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Being Mansplained to About Why I'm Being Sexually Harassed and How To Handle It.
My Response & What I'm Doing Instead.
Jan 17
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Family Estrangement is Not an "Epidemic," Child Abuse Is.
How the Cultural Messaging Around "No Contact" Empowers Abusers
Jan 13
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