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February 2025

I Am The Real Deal, and I am Not Available For Foolishness.
This is a revised edition of the Epilogue for my memoir, Loving Her Reflection.
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Damn. She's Got That Old School Self-Hate!
It’s very telling that in our society, men are more easily embraced being their natural selves.
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Respect My Bush!
If she claimed that my pubic hair had “cut” her, turning her off to me…then it was doing its job, exactly the way rose thorn protects its beautiful…
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Why Policing Bi Women Out of Lesbian Spaces Never Works
The Circus of Lesbian Identity Politics
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"But How Am I a Woman, Though?"
This is an excerpt from Chapter 4 of my memoir, Loving Her Reflection.
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January 2025

I Am Not The Kind of Person Who Writes What I Think Others Want to Hear.
I’ve been struggling with publishing my memoir excerpts.
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It Was Like She Missed Being "Him": an Au-Naturale, Free-Spirited, Fuckboy.
Trans Limerence
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It's Never "Just Hair" For Girls Like Us.
The Living Nightmare of Relaxers on a Black Woman. This is an excerpt from the 2nd chapter of my memoir, Loving Her Reflection. The name of this chapter…
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When 'Looking Like a Boy' Doesn't Yield The Results You Wanted.
Yesterday, I came across a video called, “Stud Can’t Figure Out Why So Many Men Want to Holla At Her”.
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"Hope To Connect With You"
The First Chapter of my Memoir, "Loving Her Reflection"
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