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Jul 16Liked by N3VLYNNN

I’m reading your words and just blown away by your clarity and wisdom and yes, beauty. I need more of your attitude as an aging white woman. More acceptance of being enough.

I’m also reminded how sad and pathetic and I guess strange it is for people to throw out such nastiness and negativity. But then again I remember folks saying “never read the comments“. Comments like those reveal nothing about you and everything about them.

Thank you for being here.

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Aww thank you, jo! Believe it or not I have also started to grow some grey hairs so I have started thinking about aging too. 👵🏾 The way to age gracefully is by taking good care of ourselves inside and out, and nature will do the rest.

It is sad to see how many people suffer from lovelessness in our world and sometimes people can say hurtful things but we can’t internalize that lack of love for ourselves. I like to read the comments (esp on my own blogs) but I understand sometimes it's good to set boundaries with that too.

Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. 🌺

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Jul 16Liked by N3VLYNNN

I loved seeing the video after reading some of your blogs for a while. Especially I admired how comfortable you are in your body and yourself, and found you beautiful. I especially felt good about your being a proud black lesbian - your presence says that to me and it feels affirming to other lesbians. Keep doing everything you do, we need your voice and presence.

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Thank you so much, Tina. I really appreciate your kind words of support. It’s not easy to put myself out there but I am grateful that I always summon the courage, self-love, and support to continue through the challenges. 🙏🏾

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Jul 16Liked by N3VLYNNN

Always being yourself unapologetically but with full awareness of the world around you, I'm always here for it, thanks!

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Thanks Cate 🌺🌹

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Jul 26·edited Jul 26Liked by N3VLYNNN

Reading this was so hard. I am sorry that you had to read those words. You are perfect

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