Yet again and as always, I can't stand that what is considered 'feminine' is all about uncomfortable/sexualized clothing, uncomfortable shoes, and spending oodles of time and money slathering yourself in chemicals. Gross!
This video genre also reminds of the movie trope of having a gorgeous woman normally wear comfy clothes with her hair unstyled and everyone around her pretends she's invisible or disgusting, then around the climax she puts on a nice dress and does her hair and makeup and suddenly her beauty becomes visible, particularly to her crush. I CAN'T STAND THAT TROPE. And it just makes me fucking sad that a lot of ladies I know seem to see it as some kind of fantasy. It's dehumanizing!
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Personally I think masculine women are super beautiful. Why conform to standards that don't fit you? You will only attract people who don't like the real you.
I know the film genre you're talking about lmao😹 and yes it annoys me too. When the geeky-dorky girl gets a high-femme makeover and her "true beauty" comes out, and then all the guys are into her. It doesn't help that she is originally portrayed as slovenly.
It's very possible to dress comfortably, wear little to no makeup, and have it be an intentional choice that is part of how you care for yourself. The difficult thing about these videos is that the lesbians they choose have a distinctive style and they already look fresh. The underlying message is that being masculine means you don't know how beautiful you can be if you "tried" which is patronizing.
I 💜 masculine women and find them super attractive too!
Yet again and as always, I can't stand that what is considered 'feminine' is all about uncomfortable/sexualized clothing, uncomfortable shoes, and spending oodles of time and money slathering yourself in chemicals. Gross!
This video genre also reminds of the movie trope of having a gorgeous woman normally wear comfy clothes with her hair unstyled and everyone around her pretends she's invisible or disgusting, then around the climax she puts on a nice dress and does her hair and makeup and suddenly her beauty becomes visible, particularly to her crush. I CAN'T STAND THAT TROPE. And it just makes me fucking sad that a lot of ladies I know seem to see it as some kind of fantasy. It's dehumanizing!
🤬😭
Personally I think masculine women are super beautiful. Why conform to standards that don't fit you? You will only attract people who don't like the real you.
I know the film genre you're talking about lmao😹 and yes it annoys me too. When the geeky-dorky girl gets a high-femme makeover and her "true beauty" comes out, and then all the guys are into her. It doesn't help that she is originally portrayed as slovenly.
It's very possible to dress comfortably, wear little to no makeup, and have it be an intentional choice that is part of how you care for yourself. The difficult thing about these videos is that the lesbians they choose have a distinctive style and they already look fresh. The underlying message is that being masculine means you don't know how beautiful you can be if you "tried" which is patronizing.
I 💜 masculine women and find them super attractive too!